Thursday 29 December 2011

valentines flowers for men - The Year in Asian Film

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Bigger is better.

That’s been this year’s theme for Asian movies as budgets soared to new levels. Leading the pack was “The Flowers of War,” which, at nearly $100 million, can claim the crown as the most expensive movie ever produced in China. Director Zhang Yimou’s drama about Japan’s war-time occupation of Nanjing starring Christian Bale sets a new high mark for mainland Chinese films, but it remains to be seen whether the movie’s box office will match the price tag.

“Flowers” opened around the same time as “Flying Swords of Dragon Gate,” China’s most expensive 3-D movie. Earlier this year, the tribal epic “Warriors of the Rainbow: Seediq Bale” claimed the title as Taiwan’s costliest movie ever with a budget of $25 million, while South Korea’s “My Way,” a World War II drama about a Korean man forced to serve in the Japanese military, set a record at 28 billion won ($24 million).

But the movies that made the deepest impression on me were marked by more than just outsize budgets — some, like “A Simple Life,” were small in scale but big in impact, while others, like “You Are the Apple of My Eye,” touched a nerve with moviegoers and became too massive to be ignored. Here are the 10 I consider the year’s most notable:

Busong: This mythical story, about a young man in search of a cure for his ailing sister, opens a window to the spiritual world of the indigenous people on the Philippine island of Palawan. Wandering through a jungle, the man encounters a grief-stricken woman looking for her husband, a fisherman who’s lost his boat, and a city dweller returning to his home after a long absence. Director Auraeus Solito merges the mystical and the familiar in this culmination of a life-long exploration of his family’s tribal origins.


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‘Flying Swords of Dragon Gate’
Flying Swords of Dragon Gate: Jet Li leaps into his first 3-D martial-arts spectacle, playing a general battling an evil eunuch and his henchmen at a burned-down desert outpost called Dragon Gate. Director Tsui Hark uses lavish set pieces — including a dilapidated inn booby-trapped with trip-wires, and the core of a desert tornado for the climactic sword fight — and pushes the martial-arts genre to new heights.

Inseparable: Kevin Spacey and Daniel Wu team up for one of the most offbeat movies in recent memory to emerge from China, about an overstressed Chinese man whose life is spiraling out of control — his marriage is shaky, he’s late on mortgage payments and his boss pressures him to lie to government officials during a company investigation — and his nosy American neighbor. Together they become an unlikely duo, complete with ragtag costumes, fighting injustice on the streets of Guangzhou. Director Dayyan Eng’s black comedy won’t suit everyone’s taste, but the two actors shine as the odd couple.


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‘Life Without Principle’
Life Without Principle: Over the backdrop of today’s volatile global markets, this film weaves together three stories about money-hungry Hong Kong people: a wife pressuring her policeman husband to buy an expensive home, a bank officer being forced to sell high-risk investments to unsuspecting customers, and a triad underling looking to raise quick cash to spring a fellow gangster from jail. Hong Kong director Johnnie To deserves credit for attempting to say something meaningful about how today’s economic insecurity is hitting society and the moral choices people face in an uncertain financial landscape.

A Reason to Live: This South Korean film combines a pair of stories about a young woman whose boyfriend is killed by a hit-and-run driver and a teenage girl who is battered by her father, and how the two struggle to forgive the men who have devastated their lives. In her decision to take on the heavy subjects of capital punishment and South Korea’s male-dominated culture, director Lee Jeong-hyang doesn’t so much as judge the status quo, as she looks for a path out.


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Ann Hui, Deanie Ip and Andy Lau on the set of ‘A Simple Life.’
A Simple Life: Hong Kong director Ann Hui reflects on old age in this story about an elderly amah, or servant, who’s spent her entire life working for one household, and the master who cares for her after she suffers a stroke. The understated performances from Deanie Ip and Andy Lau lend realism to this story, where not much in the way of conventional movie-drama happens. It is rich in detail when it comes to the master-servant relationship, and the poignant conclusion builds slowly.

Unbowed: This courtroom drama from South Korea is based on a recent real-life case, known as the “crossbow terror incident,” about a professor put on trial for allegedly using the weapon to assault a judge who he believed treated him unfairly in an earlier case. As the defiant professor (played by Ahn Sung-ki) battles judicial indifference, director Chung Ji-young makes a sharp critique of the country’s legal system.


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‘Seediq Bale’
Warriors of the Rainbow: Seediq Bale: Director Wei Te-sheng’s two-part, 4-1/2-hour epic is based on the true story of Taiwan’s Seediq tribes, who launched a bloody uprising in 1930 against Japanese colonial rule in order to preserve their traditional way of life in the island’s mountainous forests. But this isn’t “Avatar,” and history reminds us that the foreign occupiers will eventually crush the rebels, who are no match with their primitive weapons. This ambitious undertaking — nonprofessional actors were cast in major roles, speaking an obscure native dialect — represents a milestone in Taiwan cinema.


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Wai Ying-hung in ‘Wu Xia.’
Wu Xia: Donnie Yen plays a repentant killer from a ruthless clan who’s changed his identity and found sanctuary with an unsuspecting wife (Tang Wei) in an early-20th-century Chinese village. But his past catches up with him as a detective (Takeshi Kaneshiro) and the gang’s leader track him down. Director Peter Chan assembled an all-star cast, including Shaw Brothers legends Jimmy Wang Yu and Wai Ying-hung, for his stylish interpretation of the kung-fu genre, vividly exploring the physics and technique of the martial art.

You Are the Apple of My Eye: In his directorial debut, Taiwanese writer Giddens Ko adapted his best-selling autobiographical novel about a puckish teenage boy and his slacker buddies as they conspire to avoid schoolwork, relish in sexual fantasies about their teacher and stumble through their romantic infatuation with a studious, no-nonsense classmate. This coming-of-age comedy — an often exaggerated look at the follies of adolescence — is set in Taiwan in the mid-1990s, but the theme of the march from juvenile indiscretion toward the responsibilities of adulthood is timeless.
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Wednesday 28 December 2011

valentines flowers for men - Paralysed man allowed home for Christmas

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A RETIRED scaffolder left paralysed after a freak accident at home is still thanking his lucky stars this Christmas.

Douglas Newman has described this year as the “worst of my life”, having spent 10 months undergoing gruelling spinal rehabilitation treatment at Middlesbrough’s James Cook Hospital.

But he insists getting home to loved ones in South Tyneside for the festive season was “what kept me going”.

Doctors have told Douglas he will never walk again after he sustained life-threatening injuries in a fall at his home on Jarrow’s Hedworth estate last Valentine’s Day.

And spinal damage means he cannot use his hands to feed himself.

But the 67-year-old, speaking about the accident for the first time, prefers to dwell on the positives as he and his wife, Ann, enjoy yuletide at their home in Fieldway.

Rather than looking back with bitterness, Douglas is determined his life will be as normal as possible next year. A series of adaptions are to be carried out to his home, and he’s looking forward to taking possession of a new electric wheelchair. He’s hoping it will give him the independence to pop along to his local pub, The Boldon Lad, for a pint or two with his mates.

Douglas said: “It’s been a tough year, no doubt about that, the worst of my life, but it’s great to be home at last. Getting back home was what kept me going.

“I’m looking forward to a quiet Christmas with the missus, and I’m sure the adaptions to the house in the new year will make a huge difference to my life.

“They’re putting a lift up to the bedroom, there will be ramps and the doors will be widened. I’ll be able to operate the electric wheelchair with my chin, so that will give me much more independence.

“I can’t remember much about the accident.

“I came off the bannister at the top of the stairs and I couldn’t stop myself.

“I’d been scaffolding for 40-odd years without any problems, climbing all sorts of heights, and then something like that happened in my own home.”

He is full of praise for the support he has received, and continues to receive, from staff at the Teesside hospital’s spinal unit.

His daughters, Lesley and Karen, recently organised a fundraising night at The Boldon Lad, raising almost £1,500 for the unit.

Lesley said: “All the community came together. We couldn’t have asked for more help, and we want to pass our thanks for the overwhelming support.”

Particular thanks go to Maureen Convery and Darren Rose at the pub, Jean Murray, the owner of Murrays Club, and traders throughout the estate who backed it.

Grandad Douglas was also full of praise for his devoted wife of 39 years, adding: “I wasn’t eating in the hospital and had lost two-and-a-half stone in weight.

“I was allowed home for a while and Ann’s home cooking built me up again.

“Ann and the family have been an amazing support to me.”

Ann said: “He’s a fighter who has refused to give up.”

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Tuesday 27 December 2011

Valentines flowers for men - Gifts, chocolate milk and tough questions for Romney during Conway town hall meeting

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CONWAY — Mitt Romney fielded tough questions while accepting gifts and endorsements during a town hall meeting with about 165 people at Kennett Middle School on Thursday.

The event marked the second day for the former Massachusetts governor's "Earn It" bus tour, which crisscrossed New Hampshire — from Keene to Lancaster — in advance of the Jan. 10 New Hampshire primary.

Former New Hampshire governor John Sununu Sr. said the next president needs to have experience as a governor. Sununu says he's "committed himself" to making sure Romney takes the White House. Then he told the audience members to each find two people who they can convince to vote for Romney.

"If you do that, I promise you President Obama will end up being a one-term president and you will have spent the evening with the next president of the United States," said Sununu.

Romney also received an endorsement from Carroll County Attorney Tom Dewhurst who called Romney "a man of action."

As for gifts, Al Risch gave Romney a Mount Washington-themed calendar, and former Kennett teacher Brian P. Wiggin presented Romney a bottle of chocolate milk, one of Romney's favorite treats. Risch was a volunteer at the Salt Lake City Olympics, which Romney headed.

"This is unbelievable, thank you," said Romney about the gifts.

The town hall meeting wasn't all chocolate milk and calendars for Romney. He also had to contend with a number of questions covering difficult subjects.

Conway resident Steve Steiner said the war on drugs was being ignored during this election cycle. About 11 years ago, Steiner lost a 19-year-old son to an Oxycontin overdose. Since then, Steiner started an organization called Dads And Mad Moms Against Drug Dealers (DAMMAD).

"What I'm looking for is a president and a first lady to use the bully pulpit at the White House like the Reagans did," said Steiner.

Romney replied he wouldn't legalize drugs but that the war on drugs isn't as effective as it could be. Romney said he would launch a national public relations campaign against drug abuse.

"Our kids take (drugs) because they think it's cool but I don't think they'd think it's cool if they knew people were dying as a result of that happening," said Romney of the drug-fueled violence in Mexico and around the world.

After the meeting, Steiner said he was glad Romney wouldn't legalize drugs. However, Steiner said it remains to be seen if Romney will really make drug-abuse prevention a priority.

One man said the unemployment rate is going down and wondered if that meant the county was heading in the right direction.

All recessions eventually end, said Romney. But the problem with this recession is it has taken much longer for the jobs to return. The recovery has been so slow because of the uncertainty created by new regulations from the Obama Administration.

"It was two summers ago vice president Biden said we're in the recovery summer and that didn't happen," said Romney.

Later, Romney predicted America will face severe economic woes if the $15 trillion national debt continues to increase. By next year, the debt will go up to $16 trillion, which is 80 or 90 percent of the nation's Gross Domestic Product.

"We're now getting close to the Italy-type level and the Greece-type level," said Romney. "We will have a catastrophe unlike anything we've ever known in this country unless we finally get control of our budget."

The Obama Administration has also interfered with the free market by giving some businesses advantages over others. As an example, Romney, a former venture capitalist, said Obama gave $500 million to a now-defunct company called Solyndra.

"When government starts to play the role of choosing the winners and losers it scares everyone else away," said Romney. "What the president did made it less likely solar will be commercialized, not more."

As for the Middle East, Romney stressed that he takes the role of commander in chief seriously. Right now, Afghan military is being trained so U.S. forces can leave by the end of 2014. For now, that seems like a good deadline, said Romney who would be willing to adjust it if need be.

Romney called this era "the most dangerous and fragile" time for Israel that he's seen in his adult life. Israel is under threat because of chaos in Egypt and Syria, the latter being a key ally of Iran. Romney is anxious to see Syrian president  Bashar al-Assad out of power. Romney was disappointed Obama didn't interfere in the Iranian elections when protesters were "crying for freedom."

"If there are nations like Syria were there are dissidents that are standing up to tyrants, we should be encouraging and supporting those dissidents with our rhetoric, potentially with our covert capabilities and I wouldn't (rule out) military support of some kind," said Romney. "The decision to involve American kinetic force, our men and women, in a place of danger is a very high threshold decision."

Jim Martel, of Sandwich, and his young son, Ben, wanted to know what Romney would do to bring back American manufacturing.

"I think he answered it pretty well and I hope he gets more stuff made in America and gets the country out of debt," said Ben Martel who would vote for Romney if he were old enough.

The elder Martel, who is self-employed as a long-distance truck driver, said he believes Romney has the skills to get the U.S. out of debt. Martel also believes Obama has created too many regulations. Martel made a reference to Ross Perot's claim Mexico would take American jobs if a then-proposed free trade agreement were signed.

China is a bigger problem than Mexico in terms of outsourcing jobs, Romney said. Romney alleged China steals American intellectual property, hacks American computers and manipulates its currency to make its products cheaper.

The cost of higher education was of prime concern for some, including Jackson grandfather Dr. Gerald Carrier and college student Kallie Durkit who goes to college in Ohio.

Carrier said he was particularly troubled by the high debt loads on medical and dental school students.

Romney replied young people will start questioning the value of college education by looking for schools that can provide quality education for a reasonable cost. For instance, there's a school in Florida called Full Sail University, which caters to students studying media and entertainment industries. The school keeps costs down by holding classes 24 hours per day and not having summer breaks. Romney agreed medical school debts are overwhelming. Romney said even his own son is dealing with that problem.

But Durkit questioned Romney's believability. As a college student she didn't believe for-profit schools would really offer good education at a fair price.

"Why should we mobilize for you as a candidate instead of Obama as we did in 2008?" she asked.

Job creators are unenthusiastic about hiring more employees because of Obama's policies, Romney replied. For-profit schools and jails wouldn't necessarily cost more than state-run institutions because free enterprise encourages entrepreneurs to provide goods and services of the best quality for the lowest price. Government is inefficient, he said.

"What I can promise you is this," said Romney to Durkit. "When you get out of college if I'm president, you will have a job. If president Obama is reelected you will not be able to get a job."

Durkit, who was on vacation with her parents, said she enjoys getting to meet the candidates in New Hampshire.

"They don't stop quite as often in Ohio," said Durkit.

Durkit didn't feel like Romney's answer was realistic but says the former governor has the best chance of beating the president. Still, Durkit favors Obama over Romney.

As for immigration, Romney said he'd develop a much clearer path to American citizenship. The government has to be selective about who it lets in because there is high demand to enter the country.

Romney's proposed immigration process would be based on awarding points to applicants based on their education, job skills, and family within the United States. Applicants would be able to look up online where they are in the queue for citizenship and they would accumulate points as they wait.

One woman who lived in Washington D.C. said she's never seen partisanship as bad as it is now. She said Obama eschewed his promise to work with Republicans. She wondered if Romney would undercut the Democrats.

Romney replied Obama took the Democratic Congress for granted and didn't know how to react when his party was swept out in 2010. In contrast, Romney said as the Massachusetts governor he had to cooperate with a Democratic legislature. He did that by developing solid relationships with the Senate president and House speaker. As an example of bipartisanship, Romney said they were able to pass a law mandating that Massachusetts High School students pass a test in order to graduate.

"We recognized the importance of high standards," said Romney of himself and the then Massachusetts legislature.

Romney told personal stories about how he met his wife (which Ann Romney had to correct slightly) and about his childhood family trips taken in his parents' Rambler.

Ann Romney said her husband had the skills capability to turn the country around. She also described him as a loving husband who stood by her side when she was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. The couple has five children and 16 grandchildren.

"I'm really serious about this, I want you to really fix it," said Ann Romney repeating what she told Mitt Romney. "We're not doing this for nothing."

Romney's campaign theme song is "Born Free" by Kid Rock, which seems somewhat of an unlikely blue collar choice for such a white collar man. A reporter asked Romney about his favorite music.

"I have about 1,500 songs that I play in a rotation," said Romney. "Some of my favorites are from Roy Orbison, Clint Black, of course The Beatles, Nat King Cole, Louie Armstrong, the Rolling Stones. It's a wide array of country and early rock. I also have the Killers, which is a more recent band."
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Saturday 24 December 2011

Valentines Flowers For Men - Cultivate A Passion, Learn To Live

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I know of three men who lived in the manner of their choosing. First was Socrates, who spent his days on the streets of Athens ambushing passers-by with seemingly simple questions. Like Ghalib, he loved argument. This was not to score a victory over another, it wasn’t a debate in that sense, but to try and bring understanding, to learn. Importantly, he also wanted to spread his spirit of inquiry. The aristocrats and upper-class youth loved him (it was a middle-class Athenian jury that put him to death). Socrates wrote nothing, but his disciple Plato gave us his teaching.

The second man was Michel de Montaigne, who lived near Bordeaux. On 28 February 1571, his 38th birthday, Montaigne retired from work. He spent the day at home with his library of Greek and Latin classics. He wrote. He invented the modern essay, a short sketch on an arbitrary subject, such as the one you’re reading. He wrote 107 of them on cannibals, on cuckolds, and on smells.

The third man is Shashikant Sawant, who lives in Vashi with his dog, a stray named Mozart.

Man of words: Shashikant Sawant lives with his dog, Mozart, in a room crammed with books and watched over by a Mona Lisa print. (Photo Hemant Mishra/Mint)
He sells second-hand books to a group of people, perhaps 25 or so. He comes to their home or office with a bagful of books he’s selected for them. It is how he makes his living. The bag is an open thaila, such as women use to shop for vegetables (“So I can easily pull one out to read on the train”). His selection is based on knowledge of the person over time. Often, as is the case with me, he has sold to them for over a decade.
He is self-taught, what is called an autodidact. Because he is curious and has an open mind, Sawant is interesting company.

He can speak informatively, often penetratingly, on the importance of Warhol, the relationship between Russell and Wittgenstein, the aesthetics of the Taj Mahal, the cinema of Bertolucci and of Sanjay Chhel, J. Krishnamurti’s conversation with David Bohm, living on a diet of zunka-bhakar, the Sicilian Defence in chess and the background to the fourth movement of Beethoven’s Symphony No. 9.

I have spent many interesting evenings with him, and in another culture, he would be treasured. He paints abstracts and listens to symphonic music and Kishori Amonkar on his cassette recorder.

These three men have something in common and it is that they did what they liked doing, and little else. We can catch glimpses of their freedom by doing the things that we might like, but don’t because we haven’t set our minds to it.

And so here are 11 things you must consider doing in 2012.

Know: Every morning and evening in Monticello, his home in Virginia, Thomas Jefferson measured the temperature and atmospheric pressure. He owned hundreds of slaves but this Jefferson did himself, to be aware of what was around him. We are an indoors culture and that is one reason we invent so little. Pradip Krishen wrote a book on the trees of Delhi, but few of us can identify the trees around us or the birds of India.

Just cook with seasonal produce
Cook: For the most part, India still has seasonal vegetables. Learning how they are cooked in season will give you great joy.The other realization cooking and shopping for vegetables will bring is how drastically modern farming is changing the produce available in the market. The fruit sections in particular are frightening. Where are the local fruits of our youth? Why is so much foreign? To know this, we must work with the ingredients.
Tasting freedom: Take up carpentry—set your mind to the things you would really like to do
Make: In the period of their intellectual maturity, Tolstoy began making shoes and Gandhi began to make fabric. These two very great men decided that the most noble thing a man could do was to work with his hands. Consider making small things, useful things, like a bench or a stool. Such work is uncommon in our culture, but Indians were once great craftsmen, so it lurks in your blood.
Fix: One thing that separates Indians from Europeans is our helplessness before breakdowns. Our absolute reliance on plumber, mechanic, chaiwallah and IT man means that we understand little about the way things work, their mechanics. Merely disassembling the basic parts of something and putting it together again will bring knowledge. America’s high schools have something called “shop class” where all students learn how to work with wood and metal. We don’t and must teach ourselves.


Draw:Drawing is a different thing from painting. It is more modest. Drawing is recording, while painting is art. But all great artists from da Vinci and Michelangelo to Picasso have also drawn. The artist David Hockney separates drawing from painting because of its immediacy. This means we can draw what is before us, on what we have.
Sing: Music is expression. Expression of what? Emotion. The melodic instrument—guitar, flute—evokes emotion by imitating the voice. The percussive instrument—the drum—imitates the rhythms of life’s movements: breathing, sex, threshing. In the hierarchy of musical instruments, the human voice is ranked No. 1. The Hindu-Muslim vocal tradition of north India is the single most expressive form of music in the world (this superlative isn’t true of Indian dance). Learning it will enrich your life as few things can.

Go: Of the civilized nations, India has the poorest listings pages. We have few cultural events, and almost none where the audience pays. We have great culture but no patronage of it at the individual or collective level. This will change only when we attend events and pay for tickets. If you live in Mumbai, become a member of the Symphony Orchestra of India. In 2011, the audience is dominated by Parsis and the Indian musicians are mostly Catholic. This is because that has been the tradition. We can change that with our participation.

Grow: Few things are as rewarding to man as being able to grow food, or flowers. Coetzee writes beautifully of this in his Life and Times of Michael K. Even if it is just one pot or a little patch, to plant, nurture and harvest a living organism is something all of us should experience.

Read:Learning a new language is the best way of increasing what you know, because a culture opens itself to you. Make a list of the books that you will read next year. Include the classic texts of your faith, the Bhagvat Puran if you’re Hindu. Being familiar with the texts of other faiths makes us more open-minded, true, but fully knowing our own is an even better way. Writer Jerry Pinto once said his rule was to never buy a book he hadn’t already read. This is wise counsel for those who buy acquisitively, as I do. But I disregard Pinto’s rule because I want the book to be at hand when I eventually need it. Once you make your list of 20 books, go and get them.

Write:We do not really think until we write. All other thinking is superficial. This is something only writers know, and Bryan Magee mentions this in his book Confessions of a Philosopher. Few of us can use language with the sort of skill Rohit Brijnath does on these pages, but we can all observe and record. That is the important aspect of writing. What should you write about? One: The history of your neighbourhood. Its temples, churches, mosques, and their stories. Its schools, and who built them, who passed out from them. Two: The history and memories of your family. Its origins and professions, its ambitions and achievements. Its characters and its recipes. You will have a captive, interested audience for both subjects, and the material is waiting.

Mark: Today is the last day of the Gujarati month of Magsar (what other Indians call Margshirsha), and it is the dark night of the new moon. U.R. Ananthamurthy once said “educated Indians have lost contact with their almanac”. What a devastating observation. We live by the solar calendar, but our grandparents marked their days on a lunar year. They needed to because the amount of moonlight available was important to know. The smaller festival was celebrated, the anniversaries observed. We know Valentine’s Day but not Sharad Purnima. Fortunately, since we are vaguely familiar with the major festivals and where they fall, we only need to consult the almanac regularly to understand the rhythm of India.

The new year will bring things both happy and sad. I wish you give yourself a productive and fulfilling 2012.

Aakar Patel is a director with Hill Road Media.